Privacy, Terms and Disclaimer

The Social Architect LLC · Last updated November 10, 2026

1. Who we are and what this page covers

This website is operated by The Social Architect LLC, a limited liability company ("The Social Architect," "we," "us"). We run several brands and offerings, including Don't Send That, Curated Finds, our guides and services, event support through Work With Us, and AI for Seniors.

This page covers three things: how we handle information (Privacy), the rules for using our sites and services (Terms of Use), and what we do and do not promise (Disclaimer). By using this website you agree to these terms. If you do not agree, please do not use it.

2. Don't Send That is covered here too

Don't Send That (dontsendthatco.com), including its web app, its subscriptions and gift codes, and its connector for AI assistants, is a product of The Social Architect LLC. Its Terms, Privacy Policy, Disclaimer and Refund Policy, as published on dontsendthatco.com, are part of this page and apply to everything we do there. In plain terms: the protections, limits and disclaimers in this page cover The Social Architect LLC and all of its brands and products, including Don't Send That, and the Don't Send That terms cover you when you use the app.

If this page and the Don't Send That terms ever differ on something about the Don't Send That app, its subscriptions or its connector, the Don't Send That terms control for that app. For everything else, this page controls.

3. Privacy

This website

• What you give us. If you use a contact or inquiry form, or email us, we receive what you choose to send, such as your name, email address, company, event details and message. We use it only to respond to you, schedule a call, and provide or quote our services.
• Automatic information. Our hosting and security providers, such as Cloudflare, may process technical information such as IP address, browser type, pages requested and error codes, so the site loads and stays secure.
• Cookies and analytics. We do not use advertising or tracking cookies. If we add analytics, an email service or other tools, we will update this section first.
• Booking. If you book a video call through our Google Calendar booking page, Google collects your name, email and chosen time on our behalf and under its own privacy policy, and a Google Meet link is created for the call.
• Forms and email. Our inquiry forms open your own email app with your message filled in, addressed to us; nothing is sent until you send it. If you give us a phone number, we use it only to respond to you. Email we receive is delivered to our inbox through our email provider.

Don't Send That

• Your drafts. When you use the app, the text you enter is sent to our AI provider (Anthropic) only to analyze it and return a rewrite. Don't Send That does not save your drafts or your rewrites on our servers and does not keep a history of them. Our AI provider may keep inputs and outputs for a limited time under its own policies, generally up to 30 days and longer in limited cases such as safety review, so please do not include passwords, financial details or other information you would not want processed this way. "Talk it through" conversations are saved only on your own device, and each message you send is passed to our AI provider to write the reply, on the same terms. Your browser may hold drafts while the page is open.
• Free tries and abuse prevention. To count free tries and prevent misuse, the app sets a cookie with a random visitor ID and keeps a hashed (scrambled, not readable) network identifier. We do not store your raw IP address. The app also uses cookies and your browser's local storage that are essential to how it works, such as a secure sign-in cookie for members and your saved display preferences. We do not use advertising or cross-site tracking cookies.
• Memberships and payments. Payments are handled by Stripe. You type your card details only on Stripe's pages; we never see or store your full card number. We keep the email address and subscription status needed to run your membership. Sign-in links are sent by email through a sending service (Resend), and members sign in with email links, not passwords.
• Marketing email. We send tips and offers only if you opt in, for example by ticking the box at checkout or signing up for a guide. You can unsubscribe at any time from any email. Our email list is delivered through Kit.
• The connector. The Don't Send That connector for AI assistants handles the text it receives only to return a response in the same request. It does not store or log message content, does not sell or share it, and does not use it to train models. Your AI assistant (for example Claude or ChatGPT) has its own privacy policy for your conversation.

Everything else

• We do not sell your personal information. We share it only with service providers who help us run our business (hosting, payments, email, scheduling), when you ask us to, or when the law requires it.
• Retention. We keep information only as long as needed for the purposes above, for our legal, tax and accounting obligations, and to resolve disputes.
• Your choices. You may ask us to access, correct or delete your information, or to stop emailing you, by writing to support@socialarchitectstudio.com. We will respond within a reasonable time and as required by applicable law.
• Security. We use reasonable safeguards, but no website or service is perfectly secure, and we cannot guarantee absolute security.
• No investigations or lookups. We do not collect photographs, identifying information or private records about other people, and we do not offer any search, investigation or verification service.
• Children. Our sites and services are not directed to children under 13, and we do not knowingly collect information from them. Subscriptions and purchases are for adults 18 and older.
• Links to other sites. Retailers, marketplaces, social networks and other third parties have their own privacy practices, which we do not control.

4. Terms of Use

Using this website

You may use this site for lawful, personal and business-inquiry purposes. Please do not misuse it: do not attempt to break, overload or gain unauthorized access to it, scrape it, or use it to harass, threaten, stalk, defraud or deceive anyone. You must be 18 or older to buy from us or to use Don't Send That.

Event and consulting services

• Event and trade show support arranged through Work With Us is agreed separately in writing, including scope, fees, schedule and cancellation terms. Rates shown or discussed are estimates until confirmed in writing, and an inquiry or a call does not create a service agreement until we both confirm one in writing.
• Marisa Taccogna and The Social Architect LLC provide services as an independent contractor. We are not your employee, agent, legal counsel, accountant, insurer or fiduciary.
• We offer professional support and judgment, not guaranteed outcomes. We do not promise leads, sales, bookings, attendance, revenue, brand results or any other business result. Results depend on many factors outside our control, including the event itself, other people, the market and your own decisions.
• You remain solely responsible for your event, booth, staff, products, contracts, permits, insurance, safety, legal and regulatory compliance, vendor and venue arrangements, and for decisions you make. You will give us accurate information and the access we reasonably need. We may rely on what you give us without verifying it.
• Travel-related expenses, when applicable, are covered by the client and are separate from professional service fees. Deposits and fees for reserved dates are non-refundable unless your written agreement says otherwise.
• We are not responsible for delays, cancellations, damage, loss, injury or costs caused by weather, illness, travel disruption, venue or organizer decisions, vendors, other attendees, or events beyond our reasonable control (force majeure).

Digital guides and products

• Our digital guides, checklists and workbooks are provided for your personal use under a limited, non-exclusive, non-transferable license. You may not copy, resell, redistribute, post, share publicly or use them to create competing products. Download links are for the buyer; please do not share them.
• No refunds. Because digital products are delivered immediately, all sales are final and non-refundable, except where the law requires otherwise or we made a billing error, such as a duplicate or incorrect charge. If you have trouble downloading or opening a file, email support@socialarchitectstudio.com and we will help you get it. If you bought on a marketplace such as Etsy, that marketplace's terms also apply.
• Guides are general educational information. See the Disclaimer below.

Don't Send That plans, credits and gift codes

• Don't Send That offers a limited free plan and paid plans, monthly or yearly, at the prices shown at checkout. Free-try limits may change. Paid plans renew automatically until you cancel. You can cancel at any time, and your plan stays active until the end of the period you paid for.
• Members receive an allowance of included credits each week, with a daily limit, shown in the app and at checkout. Analyze Impact, rewrites and "Talk it through" messages use credits. Daily credits reset at midnight and weekly credits reset on Monday, in your time zone; unused credits do not carry over, and we may change the allowance. Extra credits bought as a one-time payment are used after your included credits and expire 12 months after purchase. We may limit unusually heavy or automated use.
• All payments are final and non-refundable, including partial periods, except where the law requires otherwise or for billing errors such as a duplicate charge. If you were charged by mistake, email support@dontsendthatco.com and we will fix it.
• Gift codes are paid once, do not renew, must be redeemed within 12 months of purchase, and are non-refundable.
• Prices, plans and features may change going forward; changes do not affect a period you have already paid for.

Security and unauthorized access

We use reasonable measures to protect our sites, services and your information, but no system is completely secure, and we cannot guarantee that hacking, unauthorized access, interception, data loss or other security incidents will never occur. You are responsible for keeping your email account, devices and sign-in links secure, and for activity that happens through them. To the fullest extent the law allows, The Social Architect LLC is not liable for losses resulting from unauthorized access to your email account, device, sign-in links or payment accounts, or from hacking, interception or other security incidents beyond our reasonable control. If you think your account or email has been compromised, contact us right away. If a breach affecting you occurs, we will notify you as required by law.

Intellectual property

The site, our brands and names (including The Social Architect and Don't Send That), logos, text, images, designs, guides and software are owned by The Social Architect LLC or its licensors and are protected by law. You may not use them without our written permission, other than to view the site and share its links. If you send us feedback or ideas, we may use them without obligation to you.

Your content and your decisions

You are responsible for the content you submit, for confirming you have the right to submit it, and for everything you decide to send, post, sign, buy or do with anything our sites, guides, tools or services suggest. We use what you submit only as described in the Privacy section above.

Third-party links, retailers, affiliates and services

Our sites may link to retailers, marketplaces, payment, scheduling, email and AI providers, and other third parties. They are independent, and we do not control or guarantee their products, prices, availability, content, security or practices. Your dealings with them are between you and them, and their terms apply.

Availability and changes

We may change, limit, suspend or stop any part of our sites, products or services at any time, and we are not liable for interruptions or errors. We may update these terms by posting a new version here with a new "last updated" date; continuing to use our sites after that means you accept the update.

Disclaimer of warranties and limitation of liability

To the fullest extent the law allows, our sites, guides, tools and services are provided "as is" and "as available," without warranties of any kind, express or implied, including merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, accuracy, availability, and non-infringement. To the fullest extent the law allows, The Social Architect LLC, its members, managers, employees, contractors, affiliates and licensors are not liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, exemplary or punitive damages, or for lost profits, revenue, data, goodwill or opportunities, or for any harm arising from advice, guides, suggestions, messages, AI output, third-party conduct, scams, event outcomes or your reliance on any of them, even if we were told such harm was possible. Our total liability for any claim is limited to the amount you paid us for the product or service at issue in the twelve months before the claim arose, or $100 if you paid nothing.

Indemnity

You agree to defend, indemnify and hold harmless The Social Architect LLC and its members, managers, employees and contractors from claims, losses, liabilities and costs (including reasonable attorneys' fees) arising from your misuse of our sites or services, your content or decisions, your events or business, or your violation of these terms or the law.

Governing law, disputes and time limit

These terms are governed by the laws of the state where The Social Architect LLC is organized, without regard to conflict-of-law rules. Before filing anything, please contact us so we can try to resolve the matter informally. Any dispute will be brought in the state or federal courts located in the state where The Social Architect LLC is organized, and you consent to their jurisdiction, unless the law gives you the right to bring a claim elsewhere. To the extent the law allows, claims must be brought on an individual basis and not as part of a class or representative action, and any claim must be filed within one year after it arose, or it is permanently barred.

General

If any part of these terms is found unenforceable, the rest stays in effect, and the unenforceable part will be limited to the minimum extent necessary. Our not enforcing a provision is not a waiver of it. You may not assign these terms; we may. Sections that by their nature should survive (including liability limits, indemnity, intellectual property and governing law) survive after you stop using our sites. We may communicate with you electronically, and electronic notices satisfy any legal requirement that they be in writing. These terms, together with the Don't Send That terms described in section 2 and any written agreement we make with you, are our entire agreement with you on these subjects. Some of these terms may not apply to you if applicable law does not allow them; in that case the remaining terms still apply to the fullest extent permitted.

5. Disclaimer

• No professional advice. Nothing on our sites or in our guides, tools, calls or services is professional, legal, financial, tax, insurance, medical, therapeutic, security or relationship advice, and nothing creates an attorney, advisor, therapist or fiduciary relationship. It is general information and suggestions. Talk to a qualified professional about your situation before you act.
• Not therapy or emergency help. Don't Send That and our guides are not therapy, counseling, legal or crisis services. If you are in crisis or in danger, call your local emergency number. In the US call 911, or call or text 988 for crisis support.
• You decide and you are responsible. Don't Send That and our guides suggest wording and approaches. They do not send anything for you, and they cannot predict how another person will react. You are responsible for what you send, say or do and for the consequences. We make no promise of any particular result, whether in relationships, safety, money, sales, careers or business outcomes.
• AI limits. AI-generated content can be wrong, incomplete, biased or unsuitable. Review everything before you use it. Do not rely on it as the only basis for a decision.
• Scams, safety and dating. Our scam, catfish, family safe-word and online dating guides share general warning signs and habits. No guide can prevent every scam, fraud, identity theft, voice-clone call, deception or harm, or guarantee your safety or the safety of anyone you meet or speak with. If you are targeted, contact your bank, local authorities or the relevant agency. You use this information at your own risk.

Educational Information Disclaimer

These materials are provided by The Social Architect LLC for general educational and informational purposes only. They are intended to promote awareness of online dating risks, catfishing, and potential scams.

The Social Architect LLC does not provide private investigative services, background checks, identity verification, or guarantees regarding the identity, authenticity, intentions, or safety of any individual.

The information provided should not be considered legal, investigative, financial, or professional security advice. Readers are responsible for their own decisions and are encouraged to contact appropriate authorities or qualified professionals when necessary.

• Trade shows and events. Event guides, kits and services are general business information and professional support, not a guarantee of attendance, leads, sales, contracts, revenue or any result. Every event, company and market is different. You are responsible for your own business, staff, contracts and compliance.
• AI for Seniors and technology. Educational content is general information and not technical, legal or financial advice. Technology and online services change quickly, and what we describe may be out of date. We are not responsible for losses involving your devices, accounts, data, passwords, subscriptions or purchases. Never share passwords, bank details or other sensitive information with anyone who contacts you unexpectedly.
• Affiliate and product links. Curated Finds currently links directly to retailers. These are not affiliate links, and The Social Architect earns no commission from them today. If affiliate links are added, they will be clearly disclosed next to the links. Product details and prices are set by retailers and may change, and we are not responsible for any product, seller or purchase. Examples, stories, testimonials and illustrations on our sites are for illustration and are not guarantees or typical results.
• Accuracy. We work to keep information accurate and current, but it may contain errors or become outdated, and we do not guarantee that it is complete.

6. Contact

Questions about this page, your information, or any of our brands: support@socialarchitectstudio.com. For Don't Send That app matters: support@dontsendthatco.com. The Social Architect LLC, a limited liability company.